Dealing with Nay-Sayers

Negativity is a crushing thing for a writer, and unfortunately, most of us will have to deal with it in one form or another at one point in our writing life. Personally, I can’t count the number of times I’ve had someone act all negative or critical when they discovered I wanted to be a writer.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a published author or someone who aspires to be one. At some point, you’re going to have to deal with negativity. Negativity is going to show up in several ways. The most common, in my experience, is going to be that person that keeps telling you that you’re just not going to be successful and make any money off your writing.

But you know, even if you get published, you’re still going to have to deal with jerks saying crap about your books. In other words, you’ll have to deal with reviews. That doesn’t mean you have to listen. Opinions are like buttholes: everyone has one. What you got to do is learn to filter it out and only listen to encouraging comments. Those other guys don’t give a crap, and they’re usually not the kinds of people you want to go to for writing advice anyway.

The bottom line is that people are going to criticize you for wanting to be a writer. Even J.K. Rowling gets criticized for her work, so don’t let it bother you. Being a writer means that dealing with stuff like this is a fact of life. If you can’t take it, you really can’t be a writer.

If you like what you see, don’t forget to reblog and follow. See you guys next time.

–N.L., 2017

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Author: napoleonlovecraft

Napoleon Lovecraft is a blogger and author from the suburbs of Maumelle, Arkansas. Born in 1988, Lovecraft is a lover of the fantasy genre. It is his goal to write in as many fantasy subgenres before he kicks the bucket, with stories ranging from short stories to full-length novels. His debut novel, Kingslayer, is expected to be a unique take on the High Fantasy genre, having been told in first person and aided with footnotes, not to mention the fact that it is set in a non-medieval fantasy world. Lovecraft is studying for his BA in both Professional Writing and Creative Writing at the University of Central Arkansas. He lives in Greenbrier, Arkansas with his family, where his dog and seven cats keep him in line.

One thought on “Dealing with Nay-Sayers”

  1. I can also be really discouraging to hear “Writing? That’s not a real job, anyone can write.” Because of course you’re up until 3am agonizing over a paragraph, wondering if you’ve sprinkled enough clues throughout your story as to who killed Mrs. Buttersworth, and here’s this person acting like they could write the next great American novel without breaking a sweat while of course holding down a REAL job. Makes you want to sprinkle a special sort of sugar over their berry bowls.

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